24. Service to Others V Service to Self

helpinghandThroughout my spiritual journey so far, I have been made aware of two types of people, those in service to others and those in service to self. We are taught that prior to incarnating into our physical bodies, we agree to certain predestined experiences and to some free will experiences (all leading to the predestined ones). These agreements are drawn up with our spiritual counsellors in the life between lives state of consciousness before we reincarnate. They assess the things we did in previous incarnations and what we need to experience in our next one, in order for us to have the opportunity for growth. We agree with the plan and a contract is created and signed by us.

For those of us that have taken out service to others contracts, this means that we are here to help others learn and grow through whatever means necessary. Service to others people tend to become teachers, healers, carers, speakers and so on, with many becoming quite famous spiritual teachers. Over the years, I have noticed that people in this category do tend to give a lot more than they really need to, especially the women. Earth is a mystery school and we may be here to help one another, but being in service to others doesn’t mean, we have to forget about ourselves. On a subconscious level, people who give too much are aware they are in service to others and some take it to the extreme; as a result, they tend to forget about their own needs. Others consider themselves servants to those around them and become very submissive as a result.

As far as I am aware, in order for us to make the grade, so to speak, we only need to be in service to others for at least 51% of the time. Therefore, it is perfectly fine to look after your own needs for up to 49% of the time; so what are you waiting for, book that massage or vacation or whatever, life’s too short. When you’re happy, it rubs off on everyone around you; and for that reason the number one person in your life should be you. Give yourself permission to love and nurture yourself more, you deserve it, we all do.

As far as the service to self people go, they are here to take care of number one, that’s what they agreed to do, so we need to let them get on with it, without judgment. In order for them to make the grade, they need to be in service to themselves 95% of the time, and it’s not easy. I was guided to try this for a whole month a couple of years ago, and found it really difficult to do, however, it taught me a lot about being balanced and having compassion.

All of this is interesting information, but I can't help but ask, "Do we need to be in service at all"? One to ponder, I think.


Janine Regan-Sinclair

July 2015

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